05 March 2015

A Birthday and Singed Eyebrows

02 MARCH 2015

Hey Mom!

This week is going to be a great week for the blog haha. So this was the first week with my new companion (Elder McCutchen), and we have been doing A LOT of contacting. He has been out only 8 and a hallf months but i learned that we both had Hermano Castro as a teacher in the MTC and President Doman as his branch president! Crazy right haha.

Anyway, we havent had too much success this week, we've been trying to find more investigadores but our citas (appointments) keep falling through, but what helped is I have just been thinking "its happening for a reason" Maybe someone else will be home at a sooner time or maybe we were kept safe, but nevertheless its helped. We're also hitting a stand still a little with Brandon.. he's reading what we give him but he's not praying, so with him its a little slower. Agustina is going good though. The other day we were talking to her and I guess her abuela died recently so its helped her have the desire to learn more and she's starting to attend activities with the help of Patricia (shes in her late 20's or so) shes a menos activo and its making her attend more! Win win situation! Other than that the work has slowed here in San lorenzo.. but... i have a few stories haha.

So, our apartment earlier this week had no hot water, so I went to the water heater and tried to relight the pilot light... the first try was a little unsuccessful.  I was careful but the instructions were in Spanish and I don't exactly have those words in my vocabulary... lol so the first time I ended up lighting the gas and it whooshed at my face.... I'm not hurt but I singed my eyelashes a little, my eyebrows a little, and a little of the edge of my hair. You can't tell at all though haha. My eyelashes are a little rough on the edges now haha. Plus... the second try I fixed it, and took a victory shower of hot water haha. And that was only Wednesday! On Friday we had Noche de hogar and I met a couple of the brand new, straight from the mtc Elders now in our zone and guess who one of them is..... TREVOR from RODIZIOS hahaha (Darren met Trevor by chance at a restaurant in Utah in November) how crazy is that! We met once, a week before I reported and now we are in the same zone! The best part is they can hardly speak Spanish and I got to comfort THEM about the language!!! Ever since that I've pretty much understood everything people have said in Spanish! 

And now for my Birthday... you don't need to worry about anything, the members here are the best! One of the anouncements in church.. was my B-DAY! haha. For lunch the familia jara gave us pudding and jello and after that the familia Ducardt gave us cupcakes. The flia Sanhuesa made me a birthday cake! It was super good! I have videos but I can't send them, the file is too big but I sent a bunch of pictures! Anyway, things are looking up. I feel really good and its great here. That about sums up my week so just know that I'm taken care of and that I love you and miss you guys! I'll write you soon!

Check out the name tag Grandma, you're in my world now!


19th Birthday - First one in South America


Elder Bramell's new companion from Las Vegas, Elder McCutcheon

17 February 2015

Latest Letters, Dirty Socks and Careless Whisper in an Argentine Barber Shop

16 FEB 2015


Hey Mom!

First of all, the computers cut me off last week so I literally only had time to write you and Dad. I was super bummed too, :/ but this week I'm getting everyone for sure! By the way, I got your letter last P-Day after writing you guys, so its about 3 and 1/2 weeks or so to get mail. I don't know the exact number of days it takes (because everyone gets their mail on P-Day), but that was your first letter to me.

Well now to this week, I have a few stories to tell haha. So since you asked about how the English was coming with the other guys, there was one day of the week we were all doing language study and so I was the only English speaker. I ended up standing up at one point going from one person to the next helping them with English. Needless to say I didn't study Spanish too much that day. For me the language has started to hit a stand still but I've been trying to talk more in regular conversations and most of the time I can barely talk but I've kind of learned that they don't care how my Spanish sounds, so that has helped haha. Speaking of which... The talent show was Saturday "noche de talentos" and like I said before we did a skit about little red riding hood but a little different, I didn't understand most of it, but everyone loved it haha. Plus I was a part of another activity where me and another person said a set of phrases and then there was a different way to do it, like "triste" (sad) for example. I apparently was really funny because of my acting... and my pronunciation, lol everyone liked it haha. We have video but I can't send it so maybe another time.

There were also good spiritual experiences too, one for example was yesterday...when I gave my first blessing in Spanish; I was super nervous! It was for the mother of one of our less active members. I had no idea what I was going to say and I think I repeated myself a few times and I dragged it out for as long as I could. When I finished I felt a little embarrassed, but afterwards when we were going to leave, I shook her hand and I saw that she was crying and the spirit just hit me and that felt awesome! That night we had a family home evening at their house (except I was With Elder Villanueva) and it was super good and completely not what we planned. e read a story from the Book of Mormon then showed a really good Mormon Message (I forget what its called maybe you can find it and put it here, its something like hope through the gospel with a guy standing in the desert for the cover image) Before that we had a lesson with one of our fechas, Brandon. He's interested in learning and I can tell we are really close to something special. He is only 17, but every lesson is getting better. That leads us to today.

That's crazy Curtis is already starting (his mission paperwork) and super weird too! I feel like I just left! And it sounds like you guys are getting busy so just remember to still do the churchy stuff too haha. Well I love you guys and ill talk to you soon.

Street in Darren's area

Hey Dad!

I see you need to update the blog a little haha (and about the pictures I literally usually can't because all of these computers are old and I can't plug in the SD card ANYWHERE! (its kind of frustrating) but things are going good here. I'm still struggling with the language but I've been trying a little extra so I can learn faster. I don't have much time because I made sure to write everyone back again this week because the computers cut me off last week.

Just so you guys know the time is starting to fly for me and I'm having a great time. Things aren't perfect obviously but I'm working. I taped our family picture in front of my Spanish Book of Mormon for our investigadores and me. It helps when I'm lost in the conversations, sometimes I imagine all of you guys are there watching me teach in Spanish and it motivates me. I think about you guys all the time but at the same time I know I need to be here. I love you Dad, make sure everyone knows I love them too and that they don't need to worry about me. : ) I'll talk to you next week Dad.

09 FEB 2015


Hey Mom!

Just a heads up I really do wear my retainer every night, don't worry. It doesn't fit exactly right but its getting there haha. Anyway, I dont know what to tell you about the hard days because there’s nothing to tell, :P A hard day typically means all we did was walk in the sun for hours because all our appointments fall through and no one lets us in during contacting. (Most days include contacting by the way) that has happened a couple times this week, but the weeks are blending together a lot so it feels more like a bad few hours usually haha. Speaking of marking your scriptures, I did the same thing for my Spanish set, I went through each lesson in Preach My Gospel and tabbed scriptures for each section in each lesson. So now I have about 15 mas o menos another 5 tabs per lesson (and there are 6 lessons) next I'm going to start marking some of my favorites . It's a lot of work but it helps me a lot with lessons and some of the language too!

As far as music, my companions have a bunch too so pretty much every time we go to the pension we listen to "Hallelujah" in Spanish haha plus a bunch of other stuff in English too. Overall I think I´m doing good, today I got my personal bank card to work (its so I can buy other stuff I might not really need, I won't spend it all haha). Today I was with Elder Villanueva a la peluquería (barbor shop) and they had music playing and of course guess what song came on.. "Careless Whisper" haha I immediately thought of Dad and you guys haha.

Anyway, I will let you know when something bad does happen don't worry, I'm just a happy person! Not even my first day with robbers was a bad day, (it was a lot to take in) but all i could think of is "that's an awesome story!" Well, as far as our baptisms, we only have one for the 21st, Éster, but we´re having trouble having lessons with her because she's never home so we might need to push hers back to 7 de Marzo with a few of our other investigadors. Oh, also we have a talent show this Saturday too! The Elders along with some of our leaders are "reenacting" Little Red Riding Hood. There are 2 lumberjacks and I am one but we kill everyone and my companion kills me.... then Thriller comes on and we do part of the dance... lol its kind of weird and I don't understand most of it but its funny anyway.

That is about all I can think of right now. If I need anything I'll let you know. (a package of food for example would be nice haha) but really I´m doing great. I love you guys and Ill talk to you soon!

Hey Dad!

For the church address go to lds.org and search there in the "find my ward and stake" part and you can find it or if you search there in Neuquén, it should be the chapel in the top left part of the city! you can try to find it on google maps for street view! (thats how i did it) - I asked him for the address of the chapel.

It definitely is hot here, but its pretty much California weather so I don't have a problem haha. The only problem is we only have one washing machine (in the pension with all 4 of us) and we have to air dry everything so i usually wash my whites every couple weeks...my socks and pants sadly haven't made it there yet haha, I know its kind of gross but hey you got to do what you got to do.

Anyway, the language is getting better, I'm slowly understanding more each week and its getting easier to talk back, but I have a ways to go still. So far I've gotten along with everyone! Well, except for one guy we contacted who was telling us how the stuff where teaching is bad.. I didn't really like him, but I was of course respectful and nice. We asked him if he prayed about the Book of Mormon and he just stared at us for a bit.. then said " I pray for my family every day". I just told him "well our only purpose is to invite you to learn about our beliefs and about the Book of Mormon but the choice is yours whether or not you want to know its true." (something like that in Spanish anyway) and we left. I kind of wanted to share a scripture that says " oh thou fool who says we have a bible and we need no more bible".. but I knew that was a bad idea, haha it was more of an afterthought, plus "El espíritu de contencion, no es mio." (the Spirit of contention is not of God) That was a few weeks ago but that was another experience I had and I'm way better now haha. It's kind of funny the ways people use to try to disprove the Book of Mormon haha. Anyway, pretty much all of the other people are really friendly and helpful.

I'm starting to learn some of the lingo, for example "Che" while putting all your fingers together and moving it forward and back..means "what the heck" or "come on, man" As far as other stuff.. they drink a TON of Tang haha. It's pretty much Tang or a few different sodas they have. I think a lot of it has to do with the humble situations. We have one area that, you just don't go to after 7pm, so fun stuff! I hope you can find a picture of the chapel and stuff, try this in Google maps too "5034 Int. Serrano Alejo, Neuquen" Well i love you Dad, thanks for writing, I'll write you soon!

         
Darren's Chapel - 5034 Int. Serran Alejo, Neuqeun

02 FEB 2015


Hey mom!

I'll try to answer all your questions but I'm not making any promises haha. I have no idea how many people we taught but it was a decent amount. The ward here is like ours at home but a lot smaller and I don't really know what class we go to second hour, I think that it is Gospel Essentials haha. My Spanish isn't quite there yet. I definitely felt better this week with the language, don't get me wrong, there are many times where i just start zoning out because I'm so lost haha but in general I can definitely see an improvement.

Stories.. well one kid we are teaching , Miguel is 14 years old, and we've only taught him twice but after the last lesson he was a little freaked out about baptism so we pushed his date back to the 7th of March. We don't really have a steady investigator right now because a lot of them are hard to find. We do have one family that is interested. The Mom is named Estér and she has gone to church a few times. We taught her husband once and its looking good. Her brother is actually in the hospital so today we are going to visit him, and possibly give a blessing (if its allowed).

I'm glad you got my box, I was doing everything I could to fit everything but I could not get them underweight so I had to pack a few things to send home. The mail room was closed so I just left the box with our address in front of other Elders that were in our zone haha. I trusted them but idk what they would think of it. Anyway, yes my feet are fine my shoes are still comfortable and the only thing that really bothers me now is the occasional mosquito bite. As far as my bank card I was just trying to make sure it worked :P

I guess now I can tell you a little more about the area.. the thing about dogs being everywhere is completely true haha. It is not uncommon to look down the street and see close to 10 dogs. A lot of people own dogs but I would say about 80% of them just sleep in the street. As far as driving here, I don't think there are many laws, you kind of just do what you want. So as far as the food goes... I haven't exactly reached the "legendary food of Argentina". I am positive that I have rice for at least one meal everyday, and here the only sauce is mayo haha its funny but true, if i ever don't eat rice, I have noodles with mayo. I know it sounds kind of bad but its starting to grow on me haha. The only meat we have usually is Milenasa, which is really thin breaded chicken or sometimes beef.

Well, my district is great, I feel like I laugh all the time! The other day Elder Carlotta was dancing to a song and both Elder Alonzo and Elder Villanueva recorded it, hilarious haha. Their English is pretty funny too, one of us will be talking and Elder Villanueva will say "I don;t care, Shoo fly!" haha. So things are same old same old, busy, occasional mini breakdown, and MUCHA calor, but all is well, todo bien. The weeks are going by faster for me too. Well I love you and I miss you guys, I pray for you guys too! I know its only 6 am so good morning!

Hey Dad,

It has definitely been hot :P But I'm having a good time here. Most of the people here are friendly and we are always taken care of by the members. We;ve had some trouble keeping up with our fechas (Investigators with baptism date) because we can't seem to find them on a regularr basis. We feel really good about a few but the others are ify right now.

I'm glad people are checking the blog! Hey everyone! haha. And happy 20 to you guys! That's kind of weird haha. Hermana Jones definitely had the most pictures so check her blog for sure. Right now, Hermana Jones and Hermana Webb are in Esquel, 15 hours away! I can't really think of any teaching experiences that stood out a lot but I'll let you know when I do. We've had to go find more investigators this week so a lot of our lessons are back to the beginning.

Idk if you'll catch this but in case you don't, I love you, keep working hard and I'll try to attach a more accurate picture of my area haha. Write you soon!

26 January 2015

"Capilla Abierta" aka Open Chapel

26 JAN 2015

Hey Mom!

I know it is a lot later than last week but I don't think we have scheduled times; it is just kind of when we get around to it. Anyway, I realized that my letter last week wasn't all too positive so I'll let you know some of those shortly, haha.

Well yes we are in a very poor area, I have been told multiple times that this area is the poorest and most dangerous in the mission. Needless to say, I don't ever take my camera out because of that, so if you want to post pictures of the area I would go to the Lovell's Blog and look up San Lorenzo, Neuquen Central as the zone. In general I feel better about the language, and as of today our two districts have a total of 15 baptismal dates, about half and half! So the work is going great!

As far as day to day it is all walking and teaching. The days blend together really easy. Today has been good though, we played futbol as a zone and I was actually able to make a few goals (the more we played of course). After that we walked to McDonald's! It was pretty far and it was in a mall so I kinda felt like I was in the States again, haha. I ordered a "triple mac" which they obviously don't have in the U.S. I was glad to be eating something other than rice with a really thin steak (that is the typical meal topped with mayo/mustard mix). Don't get me wrong, it is good, but we eat that a lot. We drink juice all the time too! So I haven't had to use my filtered water bottle. I have felt good with the food and all.

The other day we had a "Capilla Abierta" or an "Open Chapel" and Elder Villanueva and I ran the baptismal portion. We basically teach about baptism for 5 minutes to a group of people, members and investigators. It is a way to get a lot more investigators or spark more interest in the church. Its pretty cool! The church is testing these out in a few missions before making it a normal thing.

Anyway, that is basically the highlights of the week. I don't know if I can send pictures from this particular computer but I'll try, if not expect them next week I guess. I love you Mom and tell everyone else I love them too!

Hey Dad!

I definitely had a better week (better, not easier). I have been working already on praying more sincerely. It's hard not to be repetitive! Especially when you want the same things for the same people but I know when we pray for specific things, God gives us specific blessings. I told Mom about the "Capilla Abierta" we had. It was a really cool experience. We taught about baptisms to groups of people at a time and it was me and Elder Villanueva (one of the Spanish speaking Elders in that original group). It was the part where we were supposed to reel them in haha. We wore our baptismal clothes and I realized I didn't get shoes so I'll have to order some, and some knew white socks too haha.

Well, I'm glad to hear that no one has forgotten about me back home haha. I love you Dad. I pray for you guys too. I'll talk to you next week, and thanks for the pep talk, they do help haha.



Typical house in Barrio San Lorenzo


Neighborhood street in Barrio San Lorenzo

19 January 2015

Mission Home - First Assignment and a Frightening Experience

19 JAN 2015

Hi Mom!

This is so crazy!!!! So I have a lot to tell you but I'm not sure where to start.  Well I guess I'll start with the flights.  So my whole group traveled together all the way to Buenos Aires.  I told you about our stop in Georgia, well Elder Russell accidentally put his passport in his checked bag so we had to leave him there.  He had to wait until the next day.  We had a four hour layover in Buenos Aires and when we finally got to Neuquen we met the presidents and did a bunch of orientation stuff.

So on Thursday we got our new companions.  I'm sure you saw the picture, but my companion is Elder Carlotta.  He is from Santa Fe, Argentina and he speaks little English.  There is only one other English speaker from Texas in the district and in our zone.  Elder Coyle (the one from Fresno) is there.  I just now saw him for the first time since Thursday.  We are about 30 minutes by taxi east from Neuquen and it is REALLY poor.  There are literally people who live in houses smaller than my room back home, made up of logs or bricks.  The nice areas, I guess the suburbs of Neuquen are about as nice as the ghettos of Stockton, but safer.  It is definitely a humbling experience.

So I have a story from my first day...so be prepared and just know that I'm fine and safe.  So on Friday morning we had a district meeting and it was kind of hard to understand but I got through it pretty well.  The Elder from Texas said after the meeting that if I need to talk in English I can just talk to him anytime.  Anyway, we had to drop stuff off at the pension (apartment), which is not really big and just as we were about to leave, we open the door and 3 guys were standing there, saying they were the police.  The next thing I knew, Elder Carlotta was pushing the door so I started pushing too (the men were trying to get into their pension). It was super hard because here, the floors are either all tile or dirt, so we were sliding back on the tile and somehow we were able to shut the door and lock it.  I know there were a few angels pushing with us, because we should not have been able to.  My companion told me that they were thieves.  We stayed around a while but ended up moving into another pension temporarily with another companionship (where I am the only English speaker) so that's where we are now.

On Saturday, I was starting to feel really homesick.  That morning we started building a brick house and I got pretty sunburned.  On top of that, while we were at the Mission Home the first few days, I got 40 mosquito bites, including the bottom of my foot and big toe.  So needless to say, it was a rough day.  I wasn't understanding anything. We ate lunch at a member's house and watched the RM (in English with Spanish subtitles) so I just wanted to speak English even more.  When we finished one of the Elders shared a scripture about enduring to the end and I know it was for me.  Ever since I have felt better and I have been understanding more.  Obviously I can understand church talk because that's all we studied at the MTC really.  So I'm fine teaching, I just struggle with every day talk.  I can definitely tell I'm doing better though.  Today I think we are going to see a man named Mario (which is weird because he kinda does look like Super Mario) but we are going to commit him to baptism today, and by "we" I mean me.

So that's about all of the important parts.  Just know that I am doing better now but I still have a long way to go.  Keep me in your prayers, I need all the help I can get.  I love all of you guys so much and I'm sure this will go by in no time!  I'll talk to you next week!

19 JAN 2015

Hey Dad,

You might be up now, its only 1130 am here.  I sent Mom the story for the blog, you might want to read it first though, haha.  Well I'm doing good, I was struggling a little these past few days.  I'm getting better, I can teach fine, I just can't hardly have a regular conversation.  I don't know when you'll get this but I just thought I'd tell you that I love you and I miss you guys.  It's not easy here.  We are in the San Lorenzo area, about 30 minutes east of Neuquen, its super poor.  I like my companion, he kind of reminds me of a mix of me and Robbie.  Because of what happened my first day (I talk about it in Mom's email) we are living with another companionship and yesterday we were doing language study and none of them speak English or at least very little.  Anyway, I was teaching one of the Elder's who was with us at the mission home some English and we were downstairs and he was like "Come here Bishop!" and the others were like "No you came here!"  It was super funny and lifted my spirits a little bit haha, anyway, I'll talk to you soon, I love you.

25 New Missionaries with Presidente y Hermana Lovell

Teaching eachother: Darren teaching English, the other teaching Spanish

MTC Companions - Elder Bramell and Elder Lyman

There is a lot of training

There is time for meals too.

More eating

More language training


Role playing with new pass-along cards

These two are going to miss eachother

Meeting his new companion - Elder Carlotta from Santa Fe, Argentina

New Companionships

Elder Bramell, Presidente Lovell y Hermana Lovell

The 25 new missionaries with their new companions

Elder Darren Bramell

15 January 2015

Arriving in Neuquén

14 JAN 2015

Hey Mom! Sorry I didn't call yesterday, we were going to call from the Atlanta airport but literally none of the pay phones worked, so I couldn't call.  I can't talk long but the Mission President is letting everyone email once today to let our families know we are doing alright.

So yes I'm in Argentina and I'm doing good.  I'm not too overwhelmed yet haha.  We were traveling yesterday for over a day total, including 6 hours of layovers, but it is all going really well.  We split into groups and spent the night with other missionaries, which btw we didn't have water so I'm wearing a lot of deodorant right now haha.  Anyway, I think our P-day is Monday so I'll tell you more about it then.  I love you and make sure to let everyone know how I'm doing!  I'll talk to you soon!

25 new missionaries arrive in Neuquén, Argentina - Presidente Peron International Airport



Meeting Mission President Lovell



Headed to the Mission Home!

First dinner in Argentina - Empanadas



Not much rest...right to business.



13 January 2015

Last Week in the MTC



Elder Bramell had a great last week in the MTC.  We are grateful that he had such wonderful companions while in the MTC.  This group of missionaries really hit it off.

He left today for Argentina.  He was able to travel with his District to Buenos Aires.  From there, 3 missionaries are headed to Posadas, while 4 missionaries (including Darren) are headed to Neuquen. Their trip included an approximate 3+ hour flight to Atlanta from SLC.  From Atlanta they embarked on a 9+ hour flight to Buenos Aires.  He should arrive by 3:30 a.m. (PST) or 8:30 a.m. Argentina time.  From there he has more travel to the Mission Home in Neuquen.  We can't believe our son is actually in South America!  We hope to hear from him soon.

Wearing the ties and matching scarves Brandee bought/made for them.




Screen shot of Elder Bramell's actual flight over Bolivia and Paraquay

02 January 2015

New Year and Preparing to Leave

01 JAN 2015 - New Year's Day

Hi Mom,

Thanks for sending the pictures! I got the Christmas package you sen the day after Christmas because the mail room was closed, so it wasn't your guy's fault :P  Anyway, I'm glad things are going so well! Spencer told me he's getting braces next week! He seemed a little worried about it, haha. Well hopefully I can catch you, but if not oh well, just know that I am doing awesome! And you guys should be too, I pray for you guys all the time too.  We talked a lot about setting goals this week since its the new year so just tell everyone that this year, we follow through!

So obviously we have been having a lot of lessons.  One of our teachers was our "investigator" and he was poor with a drug problem so he couldn't "pay the electricity bills" so we taught the entire lesson in the dark.  Obviously we couldn't read anything but we followed the spirit well and I felt like I was talking the most but it was awesome.

We have grown super close and we joke around all the time.  We got to host yesterday and at the training meeting Elder Lyman saw dried chocolate on his sleeve and did one of those quiet screams and we all started busting out laughing haha.  Its just one of those things where you had to be there I guess.

Anyway, we got ANOTHER district yesterday!  It has four more Elders and four more Hermanas.  They are kind of quiet but awesome too, I know we were all the same way at first.  Well that is the highlight of this week so far.  I can't believe it is already the 5th week!  Anyway, hopefully you get this soon, I love you Mom!


Darren's District with the Argentine Flag

Fun in the snow


Not as much fun in the rain...well except for Elder Bramell.
Hanging in the laundry room on a Personal "P" Day.

How did Darren find so many people as cheesy as he is?

Elder Bramell excelling in the "light saber" portion of his training.

02 JAN 2015 - We Are Go for Launch!

It takes several months for missionaries traveling to South America and particularly Argentina to receive the necessary visa to proselyte.  Darren is required to obtain a passport, visa and FBI clearance prior to traveling.  It is not uncommon for missionaries serving in South America to be delayed while visas are processed.  Some wait several months and end up serving state-side for a while before receiving the necessary clearance. We began this process back in August 2014.  We had concerns that paperwork could delay Darren's departure date.  It looks as though, he will be leaving as planned.  I knew with Brandee as his mother, all paperwork was going to be in order!

Darren writes:  Just a heads up, we got our travel itineraries so we are leaving the 12th for Argentina!